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The Father's Journey (25/04/2012)

Fathers who separate from their wives or partners face a tough transition which involves increased risk of unemployment, absence from work through sickness and declining mental health, according to a new survey conducted for the All-Party Parliamentary Group on Fatherhood.

The Fathers’ Journey, a survey of 295 separating and recently separated dads by the Fatherhood Institute and Families Need Fathers, found that two-fifths (41%) had changed their working patterns in the year before separation, and just over half (53%) in the year following.

Overall, 11% of the fathers who responded to the employment questions became unemployed or were signed off sick in the pre-separation year, and 22% in the year after.

Those reporting changes in the year pre-separation were most likely to report moving to a different employer (46%), increased working hours (30%) and changing position within the same company (24%). Changes in the post-separation year were most likely to involve moving to a different employer (34%), becoming unemployed (33%) and being signed off work due to illness (19%).

Three-fifths of survey respondents (61%) said their mental health had worsened during the post-separation year, and 54% in the year before separation. Half (49%) said their relationship with their children was weaker in the year after separation (and 19% in the year before) – although interestingly, 35% said their relationship had improved post-separation (and 29% in the year before).

The survey suggests that a considerable proportion of separating and separated fathers seek help on a range of issues, but many do not look for or find the help they need – for example 71% of respondents did not seek employment advice from anyone in the year before separation, and only 54% had approached a solicitor on any topic.

David Lammy MP, Chair of the Fatherhood APPG said: “These are very worrying figures. They show the real need for public services to offer relationship support for all families, when times are good and when times are more difficult. The hidden suffering revealed by this report should not be ignored.”

Ken Sanderson, chief executive of Families Need Fathers, commented, “The results of this survey should be a wakeup call for employers and the Government that much more needs to be done to ensure fathers receive the support they need when family breakdown occurs. It is clear that many fathers require and seek out support, and that leaving them to ‘suffer in silence’ has not only a terrible human cost, but also places a heavy strain on their employers.

“The first signs that a father is really struggling to cope may be found in the workplace. It is therefore crucial for companies to examine what they could do to better support staff going through separation or divorce, and for employers to be included in the Government’s revamp of support services for separating families.”

Adrienne Burgess, joint chief executive of the Fatherhood Institute, said: “These survey results offer a glimpse of the challenges separating and separated fathers face as they deal with their emotional difficulties and try to juggle their earning and caring responsibilities. The survey also reveals the massive costs of this – not only to the men and their families, but to their employers and to the State. There’s a myth that men don’t ask for help, and this survey shows that’s not the case. We need to do more to explore how dads access services, and what barriers may be preventing their wider use of them.”

 

 


 

 

FNF has conducted original research amongst its members and the public.  Research papers can be found here: 

FNF Services Survey Analysis. September 2016

 

FNF's Beyond the Nuclear: Including the Wider Family. Produced for the Including the Wider Family Forum. May 2009

Click here to read the list of demands made at the Including the Wider Family launch.

FNF, JUMP and MATCH Research on Parental Alienation, 'Raising Awareness of Parental Alienation, International Parental Alienation Awareness Day 25 April 2008, April 2008

FNF Research on Non-Resident Parent Costs, 'We need your help to bring about change in the CSA!', June 2007, plus annex of data collected.
FNF Research on Non-Resident Parents' experiences with their children's schools, 'The things that matter! Are you kept informed?
', January 2008
FNF Research on Non-Resident Parents' experiences with the Family Justice System, 'The Law, the Authorities and You!'
, February 2008
FNF Research on Non-Resident Parents' experiences with their childrens' doctors and dentists. 'The things that matter! Are you kept informed?'
, March 2008
FNF's Summary of Research on The Importance of Both Parents in their Children's Lives
, September 2007

 

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