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FNF Trustees

The list of desired skills below has been identified by the board to strengthen the skillset held collectively by the Board, and that is appropriate to our national charity. It is not mandatory, however, and a trustee candidate may not have any of the desired skills listed and may have other skills and knowledge that would benefit the Board as well as having the time to commit to the charity.

The legal requirement to become a trustee are that you are not legally barred for holding such a post, you have been correctly proposed and you are willing to hold the post.

Anyone wanting more information should contact the Company Secretary.

The board would welcome interest from people who have the time to participate at least 1-2 days a month as well as offering one or more of the following:

1. Is a partner in a law firm or an experienced family court lawyer.

2. Has a network and close relationships with a celebrity group of contacts who could enhance the FNF profile and standing.

3. Has experience over a number of years of successfully building commercial enterprises from start-up positions to a turnover of £1 million plus.

4. Is a former or current MP or a former senior civil servant acting in a department that deals in family matters, family law, health or education or other relevant areas at a senior level.

5. Has proven experience in public relations, news or media at a national level.

6. Has substantial commercial or larger scale charity marketing or fundraising experience and is a member of the Institute of Marketing or another nationally recognised professional body.

7. Has professional experience and a good track record of Fundraising or of PR and national or high-profile media and communication skills.

8. Has demonstrable experience of successfully lobbying and achieving legislative or social change.

9. Has professional finance and/or governance skills.

Please note that it is not necessary for a Trustee to be a member of FNF – rather that they bring relevant skills and experience and can devote adequate time to the role.

Trustees need to be able to devote a reasonable amount of their free time to helping with the governance and development of the charity. This will involve participating in 6 - 8 evening meetings a year (usually by Skype), attending an Annual General Meeting, also contributing to development of our activities by taking on specific projects in their own time and contributing to the work of sub-committees that focus on the services we offer. This includes fundraising, marketing, campaigning, governance, etc. The role of Trustees is to develop policies and ensure that the charity complies with legal requirements (for more details please see

Please note that the Board is open to nomination of potential Trustees at all times, not just at AGMs. The Board can co-opt new Trustee candidates which it feels are suitable on to the Board in between AGMs. This gives additional opportunities for the Board and prospective Trustees to work together pending their confirmation by election at AGMs.

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  • Over the last couple of days we shared charts showing the impact on children's mental health and psychosomatic symptoms in different family arrangements. The last chart in this series focuses on physical, psychological and social quality of life and wellbeing measures. As with the first two charts, it points to outcomes for children being best in nuclear families, however, joint care is by far the best option when parents separate, whenever that is possible. Please support us by sharing our posts, liking them, following us, registering for free, becoming a member or making a donation.
  • This second chart looks at children's experience of psychosomatic symptoms based on their living arrangements once their parents separate. These are physical symptoms that manifest themselves following a psychological trauma - in this case reduced or eliminated relationships with one of their parents. You can support us by sharing and liking our posts, following us, registering for free, joining us or making a donation.
  • Some parents have no choice but to bring up their children alone. Sometimes it is because a parent is irresponsible or poses a genuine risk. We have great respect for them. However, for the vast majority of the thousands who come to us it is because their ex refuses them access because of jealousy, hurt or selfishness and a belief that single parenting does no harm - except it does. For us, shared parenting is not only right in principle, but supported by evidence as this graph from a huge Swedish study shows in relation to mental health. You can support us by sharing and liking our posts, following us, registering for free, joining us or making a donation.
  • Families Need Fathers contributed to yesterday's live Victoria Derbyshire Show debate on domestic abuse and the notion that Family Courts arranged 'contact at all costs'. Amongst the panel were deniers of parental alienation and people who had the strange notion that getting a contact order for unsupervised direct contact was a doddle and the norm. Do send your views on this and men's experience of abuse looks like the debate will continue on the show for the next couple of days. The terms of reference for any inquiry into this will be critical - early indicators of pre-determination are worrying. Support us by liking and sharing our posts, following us, registering for free, joining or making a donation.
  • We will be present on the BBC Victoria Derbyshire programme today at 10 when issues in the article are discussed further. This is yet another article making strong suggestions - including that dads (not mums) who have been accused of abuse, shouldn't even have the right to even ask the courts for permission to see their own children. Or that dads (not mums) who have what they call the "toxic trio" of addiction, mental illness and a history of violence, represent an overwhelming risk to children - after separation. Why single out dads? Could mums all be perfect? Let's face it, the kind of battles which go on between separating parents - partly thanks to our adversarial family law system - are rife, alienating parents and children through lack of early collaborative actions and blighting their futures. Men and women need to collaborate from the outset. Our children deserve and need it. Also, whilst deaths of children in family violence are always a tragedy, they are thankfully extremely rare. This kind of exceptionalism is rife in the media today - taking a relatively rare tragedy as justification for major decisions which might dangerously impact a far larger part of society. Just because some people are allergic to nuts is not a reason to ban nuts. It's a reason to take sensible precautions and educate people on the dangers. However we do agree that more transparency is urgently needed in the Family Court and would help the public to understand the terrible problems that are experienced by children and parents as a result of the ineffectual way the system works - in practice. It is not so much that the law needs changing, but rather its practice. More transparency is a must.
  • Yesterday, BBC Radio 4 broadcast 'When Parents Split' an intelligent discussion on Parental Alienation. The programme was presented by psychotherapist Philippa Perry and featured contributions from Francesca Wiley QC, PA experts Dr Amy J Baker and Karen Woodall, Sarah Parsons from the Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service (Cafcass) as well as powerful testimony from parents talking about their horrendous experiences and a young man who had been alienated. All separating parents and those affected should listen to this and share it widely to help raise awareness of this shockingly common phenomenon. Please support our work by liking and sharing our posts, following us, registering for free, becoming a member or making a donation.

FNF HSSF Kite Mark Award

Families Need Fathers has been awarded the Help and Support for Separated Families Kite Mark which is a new UK government accreditation scheme for organisations offering help to separated families.

Families Need Fathers work with a range of family law professionals, including Family Law Panel


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